I’m trying to never go back to the other place, but the thing I miss is that there was always a lively conversation going on somewhere. On lemmy, it seems people don’t want to just have a conversation-it’s either serious or techy- I’m looking for light conversations?

Does this happen anywhere on lemmy where responses to your comments come sooner than a day, and people are just sort of in the ‘lobby’ chatting?

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      Lafayette Louisiana here. I just think because it’s such a techie group it tends to have a lot of introverts. Me included.

      What got my sucked into Lemmy admittedly is the federation nature, which I’m new to. The reddit events was the push I needed to commit to setting up my own instance!

      I assume you joined also because of the reddit stuff?

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        Louisiana crew! I’m from Shreveport, but I live in Colorado now. My ex wife is from Lafayette. Been there a few times.

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                How long have you been there? I left LA the first time when I was 17 for 10 years (military). Then came home for about 8 and left again for here and I don’t think I’m going anywhere.

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                  Since the 1980s lol. I said BACK to CO only because I spent a summer in Estes Park, and always imagined I’d come back to live out there

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                    Oh wow. I would highly recommend it. I love Colorado. I was hesitant to come, but I can’t imagine living in the South again. Mostly the politics and racism. I’m half Korean and I just never felt accepted in the south. Always felt out of place.

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        Yes, I was an Apollo user since forever. I won’t run Reddit app, and they kept suspending me for no reason all the time. Such bs, what app actively chases out contributors? So I ended up here. I just need somewhere to find my curated content and discuss the things I have questions about

        Lemmy is awesome, but I wish everything was encrypted. I understand that with federation it’s a bit pointless in theory, but it would improve a few aspects imo.

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          Yeah pros and cons for sure. Im loving Lemmy. I’m still waiting for the perfect android app for it though. Every one that exists is missing usually one or two key features.

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            I came from Apollo on iOS, so Voyager is scratching the itch for me, almost completely.

            I like discussing stuff. I’m a student of cryptography from way back, who got involved in cryptocurrency later in life. I find lemmy to be pretty anti-crypto. People have said this is because lemmings are left-leaning and so therefore don’t like crypto, but this flies in the face of all the norms I know as an old guy who worked through these industries from the 1980s (technology, computing, programming and cryptography). This is another thing I miss from the-social-network-which-shall-not-be-named - an active bitcoin community

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              I’m not against crypto. I even did some mining a couple years ago but it just wasn’t worth it for me. I think a lot of the anti-crypto talk is because it was heralded as the next coming of christ of currency and it just…wasn’t. It never took off mainstream and now the hype has blown over. Also, crypto’s value has tanked across the board leading many to look at it as a failure. Similar with NFTs. They could have had many good uses but scammers took hold pretty quickly and now it’s just a joke. I don’t think the current state of crypto is gonna make it. I do think it could reemerge as something more mainstream in the future. It’s just not ready in its current iteration.

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                It’s such a deep and controversial subject. I’ve never tried mining. There are some simple use cases, like tipping creators on social media, that don’t require a person to close all their bank accounts and convert all their dollars to bitcoins, but people take any talk of innovation in the space as a demand that they change their philosophy of money, so to me, the anti-crypto crowd seems reactionary and toxic.

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                  Yeah, I can see that. I mean, it’s really most change in things. The vast majority of people hate change and react extremely about everything.

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                    I remember before www, before aol, so when I was the first person going online in my friend group, everyone thought I was a lunatic. imo, crypto is the same. In a decade it will be ubiquitous and nobody will care what anyone’s opinion of it was in 2023

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      Oh neat, I’m over in St Pete. Hey neighbor o/

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          That’s awesome! I haven’t been to any in the area yet. What kind of music you like?

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              Oh I think I’ve walked by there, it’s next to that bar with the rooftop patio right? Who’d you see?

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                  I like him, didn’t know he was in town. Sucks that it rained but at least there was rain lol, my plants are only barely recovering from the drought. Much better than earlier this year but still pretty dang dry.

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                    It was last year. October or November I think. It’s so nice to stay at the hotel directly across the street from the venue so you can just stumble over there after the show and hit the rooftop pool. Great time