My problem is perfectionism/anxiety/procrastination loop. “oh I gotta write a good reply to this text” --> "fuck I can’t think of the right words, that’s making me anxious -> “I’ll do it later when I can do it properly and I won’t be anxious” -> 2 weeks later -> “fuck why am I so bad at this”
That is so true. Then I feel bad for seenzoning the dude and reply. Although my brain wants to run away!
My sister hasn’t replied in a month lol. I get it though.
Why are you calling me out like this?
Thanks for the reminder, I still had one of those messages waiting for me…
It’s been an hour, it’s still waiting right?
I once forgot to respond to a friend for 5 months, lmao. Luckily he knows me well enough to know I sometimes forget and I was kind of going through a personal crisis, so a ‘hey man kinda forgot to respond for 5 months, how are you’ was enough to make it all right again