The pandemic just exposed the lie that in the worst case, the government, or your job, or someone in power, would help you.
There’s not really much “going back” from that realization, especially when we can literally find news articles every day about how another politician is campaigning against us for one thing or another.
Today, for instance, I discovered that Arkansas had passed a law to make it possible to criminally charge librarians if they lend out the “wrong” books to people!
You can upload videos to a danbooru instance you run, as well as pictures/gifs/webm/etc. It is all about tagging, and if you put it behind some auth mechanism (I’m using Cloudflare’s application Access portal to use Github as my IDP) you can lock it down to just friends and family.