It’s been a long time since I’ve looked, but studies suggest that porn in general doesn’t have a major effect on your behavior. It might lead to insecurity, but it doesn’t lead to action. Some people are worried about legality, most people just don’t want to see it, those are fine and dandy but anything else is just moral outrage

they could easily have their cake and eat it too by signing up to lemmy. There are a lot of instances out there and they could make their own if none fit.