Ok ok, of course if the instance is yours you can do whatever you want, it can’t be any other way, I only give my opinion and luckily for both points of view there are various instances and as a winger anyone can even set up their own, that’s the best thing about the fediverse. I just wanted to make my point.
The only way that she has not realized what she has put is that her parents are also brothers, knowing a little about him I do not rule it out at all