• subignition@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    Depictions of autism in media very rarely focus on anything other than what’s perceived as the upsides.
    Like all other forms of entertainment and marketing, it’s not realistic, it’s designed to present something appealing to a mass audience.

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      11 months ago

      I’d say Tina Belcher is a fairly good depiction, and people love her character.

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        Yeah I commented that the best depictions I’ve seen of all these identities are usually kids cartoons, Bob’s Burgers is pretty family friendly and decent for the most part. The Marshmallow character is another. There’s an episode that kink shames Pesto for his adult baby diaper fetish though, or rather using the fact that Pesto is ashamed of it himself. Marshmallow has no shame about what they are. Overall it’s positive even with the few issues.

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      11 months ago

      I think it’s also in the current day spirit of unquestioning inclusion. Producers can’t make a more nuanced or even unlikeable neurodivergent character because there would definitely be backlash for harping on a marginalized group. Even if the character is written with the best of intentions in mind

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      11 months ago

      Well in past autism was only shown in extreme forms. Like non talking just have the actor twuxh and occasionally yell. So not showing the up side, but a mix oh the poor parents and inspiring disabilities

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    11 months ago

    Flash news people like fiction not as a representation of reality but as a stylized, idealized versión of it, that’s why you see beautiful people, not fat, ugly or old. So it’s autistic quirky and not every day autistic.

    I’m aware it’s an impopular opinion but that doesn’t make it less true. And you can gauge it by how popular it is.

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      11 months ago

      that’s why you see beautiful people, not fat, ugly or old

      I frankly don’t usually agree with Hollywood ideas of “beautiful”. Which is also the reason I’m watching mainstream movies (and I’m not a cinema enthusiast, so mainstream is all I watch) less and less - those ideas are becoming even more narrow and specific over time. I’m feeling as if some subculture’s or even some little group’s idea of “cool” is being shoved down my throat, in appearances and writing and cinematographic language even.

      In my personal opinion people I know are in average more beautiful than Hollywood faces active now.

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        I frankly don’t usually agree with Hollywood

        I said fiction, not Hollywood. And yes you can have your own preferences, I’m not saying that you can’t, just that what we call mainstream is the representation of objective beauty.

        those ideas are becoming even more narrow and specific over time

        Depending on who you ask, somebody would tell you it’s the contrary.

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          just that what we call mainstream is the representation of objective beauty

          Beauty can be only subjective by definition.

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            Nope, facial and body symmetry can determine if someone is considered universally beautiful.

            And it’s not limited to humans, animals and plants can be considered universally beautiful.

            The sea and the starry sky, a sunset, the moon etc, if it moves emotion within you then it’s beautiful, and there are things that move the world entirely.

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              Nope, facial and body symmetry can determine if someone is considered universally beautiful.

              Facial and body symmetry is ugly or at least scary. You’ve just never seen people with that.

              Other than that - beauty is by definition your own opinion on whether something looks good or bad. If there’s a single person in the world who disagrees - then it’s not universal. If there is none, but there may be the next moment - then it’s not universal.

              and there are things that move the world entirely

              Nothing moves the world entirely. Majority vote doesn’t apply here and even the 3 (or up to 7, whatever) sigma rule doesn’t.

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                  11 months ago

                  Take a sufficiently well-centered photo, leave only the left or the right half, and replace the other one with its mirrored version. Then honestly say whether what you see is beautiful or ugly.

                  If you know that, just walk around here trolling, then bon appetit and ignore my advice.

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      11 months ago

      I never once got that impression. Seems like a stretch to me

      Also outside of cosplaying who is “obsessing over” them?

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        11 months ago

        “Why does everyone love that imaginary character so much,when they could have loved me instead? I do deserve it more, after all!”

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      11 months ago

      Yeah. People have a tendency of labelling anyone that is depicted in TV shows as socially awkward as autistic. That’s why so many people on twitter who simp for Dahmer on twitter refer to his supposed autism despite the fact that he was subjected to multiple psychological evaluations and never was accessed as autism.

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        11 months ago

        Wednesday was socially awkward, sure… But the Munsters? From what I remember, they were depicted the same as any other sitcom family of the time; except they were physically monsters. To be fair, though, I barely remember the show from when it was on Nick at Nite when I was a kid; I might be conflagrating memories.

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          11 months ago

          You are showing your age here. Granted, kinda the person who made this fault because they just said Eddie and expected everyone to know which Eddie. They mean Eddie from stranger things.

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              A poster above stated neurodivergent wasn’t a synonym for autism, I’m pretty sure for a lot of people it is a synonym for “different”.

              Eddie does represent a counter-culture that was prevalent at the time, for many that codes as “neurodivergent”.

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                How does counter culture have any relation to actual neurological conditions. I think that’s the questions people are asking. This whole post is insulting and stupid to actual neurodivergent people.

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              11 months ago

              I dunno enough about stranger things to comment about thar but in general characters who are like socially awkward get labelled as autistic.

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                11 months ago

                If you haven’t even seen the show, why are you defending the characterization? If you had seen the show, you would know Eddie Munson is not socially awkward, especially compared to most of the other main characters who actually are portrayed that way.

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    11 months ago

    pretty soon people on the spectrum are going to realize what the rest of us know: we’re all cunts. bastards. shitbags and utter ass pimples of humanity. we’re all shite and the ones that get loved are the rare fraction of the 1% of humanity, and they’re rarely worth it either.

    Personally I’d rather avoid people entirely.

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    I don’t understand the confusion here. Yes, it’s interesting and entertaining to watch people on TV deal with issues that don’t affect me and that I don’t have to accommodate, and it’s not interesting, entertaining, or fun to watch my brother deal with those issues in real life, or that we have to walk on eggshells at family holidays so my brother in law doesn’t have a meltdown. Duh. It’s also entertainment to watch a show where an important character dies, but extremely difficult and uncomfortable when your actual friend loses a spouse or child.

    Society loves things that are difficult on TV, and in real life society prefers things that are easy.

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      Yeah, but one thing useful to tell a good person from a bad one is that they are conscious of this at least when you point out their behavior of this kind to them. Sometimes people consider themselves good because they like watching and reading about people doing good things, and are in denial about the contrast with their own real actions. Or have the gall to behave as if the latter matters less.

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    11 months ago

    People used to tell me that I reminded them of Sheldon from tbbt as though that was a compliment.

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    Wait you think Wednesday is supposed to be neuro fucking divergent? The Addams family are macabre. They enjoy inflicting pain on themselves and others. They’re obviously creepy and quirky. They’re bizarre. They’re morbid. They’re antiheroes, maybe. They could even be argued to be sociopathic, sadistic, cruel, or just mean. But that’s their entire shtick, you absolute massive twat. They’re an antithesis of a typically-portrayed family, the one with the white picket fence and the golden lab. What they are not, nor has anyone involved with their creation ever claimed they were, is neurodivergent.

    But sure, just randomly make something unrelated to you completely about you, cause that screams neurodivergent, not narcissism.