• MrLuemasG@lemmy.world
    1614·
    1 year ago

    My wife was telling me about how annoying it is that she’ll try listening to new true crime podcasts and they’ll shit like “unalived” instead of “killed”. Comes across hella disrespectful to the victims.

    • FancyLad @lemmy.world
      1103·
      1 year ago

      To be fair, it’s pretty bleak to use someone’s grisly murder as a means of entertainment. Our society is weird

      • Pregnenolone@lemmy.worldEnglish
        65·
        1 year ago

        “Hey there all you horror sweeties, I’ve got a sloppy poppy oopy goopy murder of a three year old little girl brought to you by Squarespace”

      • PerCarita@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
        5·
        1 year ago

        Humans have had a taste for the macabre at least for as long as we have written history. Public executions used to be a past time activity (even Jesus’ crucifixion is told like it was a public show), the morgue of Paris was a tourist attraction, even the sanitised (and controversial) Body Worlds exhibition has no trouble finding an audience. Maybe what’s weird is our relationship with death and putrefaction. It happens to everyone yet it’s somehow in bad taste to talk about it.

      • Dizzy Devil Ducky@lemm.eeEnglish
        1·
        1 year ago

        If I was murdered and the case went cold for a long time, you bet I’d want everyone hearing about it after the case finally gets solved. But that’s just me.

    • JokeDeity@lemm.ee
      251·
      1 year ago

      I get so annoyed listening to true crime stuff on YouTube these days and having the audio cut out any time a person uses the word suicide or rape, but not the gorey details of murder; no that’s perfectly fine to hear every excruciating detail, but lord forbid your precious ears here the letters S-U-I-C-I-D-E in order.

      • iheartneopets@lemm.ee
        155·
        1 year ago

        It’s not (mostly, I can’t speak for the weirdos out there) murder porn, though? For a while, it was a movement of almost solidarity with other women, because these stories could easily happen to us. So it was almost like listening to survival tips, as well as paying respects to those lost by trying to learn from their experiences. It probably wasn’t a coincedence that the ‘true crime wave’ happened around the time of Me Too.

        And to soothe your mind, true crime as a ‘fad’ is dying quite a bit. People realized that, hey having a frivolous show where you clown and make cocktails or some shit while talking about real victims just isn’t okay.

        Source: am a woman who was (and is) interested in true crime, and have spoken to many other women from different circles—and even states/cities—who were also interested in the topic.

        • oatscoop@midwest.socialEnglish
          82·
          1 year ago

          It’s not exclusive to woman either – guys (especially young guys) watch police bodycams of shootings, combat footage, and gore-porn TV shows or movies. There were entire subreddits dedicated to actual videos/pictures of people dying – and I’ll give you one guess as to what the demographics of their user bases were.

          It’s almost as if a lot of people are morbidly curious about death and violence.

          • iheartneopets@lemm.ee
            22·
            1 year ago

            That’s not what I said, is it? I was talking specifically about the more recent spike in popularity.

            Edit: Not sure why I’m being down voted for pointing out what I said. I very specifically was talking about the spike in popularity around 2016. I’m not talking about the topic being popular before that, because there is a specific difference in the two time frames, where interest in the topic reached a fever pitch. And yes, it is ‘slowing down’ compared to said fever pitch ~2016. But ‘slowing down’ mostly means returning to baseline.

  • alt@sh.itjust.works
    1211·
    1 year ago

    Everyone else is circle jerking about the censorship, meanwhile, I’m wondering how murder, rape, suicide, sex, and lesbians all came up in a bumble chat.

  • Selmafudd@lemmy.world
    98·
    1 year ago

    I’ll never forget about 25 years ago cruising around some random chat rooms on mIRC and somebody asked me how the weather was and I said it was a bit chilly and I got instabanned with the message potty mouth… took me a good 5 minutes to workout wtf happened (bit ch)illy

  • elint@programming.dev
    982·
    1 year ago

    Honestly, a tiktokker and a 4channer sound like the perfect couple, at least from the POV as an outside observar. grabs popcorn

  • Deiskos@lemmy.world
    9223·
    1 year ago

    tiktok

    I automatically have zero respect for anyone using that chinese spyware trash.

      • Deiskos@lemmy.world
        1012·
        1 year ago

        Made in china, under complete control of ccp as every big company in china is. It is very unfortunate that younger generation is essentially being raised by tiktok and its algorithm.

        Facebook is bad, no doubts about that, it’s also unavoidable as the only social media for most people, and it’s also not fun for most people. Tiktok on the other hand is interesting, it’s captivating, the algorithm tailors it to you, microdoses you with dopamine. I’m sure that same algorithm can be, if desired, used to push pro-china/pro-russia/anti-west narratives to varying degrees of subtlety, tailor-made to each user, to further destabilize certain countries, united states included.

        Social media is dangerous, social media controlled by a potential enemy is dangerous on a whole another level.

          • gingersneak@lemmy.world
            15·
            1 year ago

            Big difference between “The US isn’t actually the greatest country in the world” (whatever the fuck “greatest” means, they’re never too clear about that) and “Uighyurs are dangerous dissident terrorists who need to be re-educated. Any organ donations are purely voluntary.”

            But then again, I am talking to a CCP shill from lemmygrad. Pretty much pissing into an ocean of piss here.

            • 🏳️‍⚧️ 新星 [she/they]@lemmygrad.mlEnglish
              8·
              1 year ago

              Do you have a source to back your claims up?

              Make no mistake, there have been some allegations in the UN report, that if true, I would want China to do better. But I don’t remember reading about organ harvesting in there.

              Who do you trust to make reputable claims that aren’t motivated by political reasons on this?

        • theangryseal@lemmy.world
          36·
          1 year ago

          This right here is the answer.

          Yes, we know that our government has done shitty, crazy things to try to control people and they probably aren’t above that today.

          They do not have it in their best interest to weaken their own country though. A potentially hostile foreign government does.

          I mean, everyone uses it so I hope not. We’ll see I guess.

  • ɐɥO@lemmy.ohaa.xyz
    723·
    1 year ago

    I fucking hate people censoring themselfs. Like what the fuck does “I ****** ***** ****** *****” mean?

  • raubarno@lemmy.ml
    602·
    1 year ago

    Cannot resist bashposting:

    ~ $ bian='nd me money pls'
~ $ echo le$bian
lend me money pls
  • FoundTheVegan@kbin.social
    56·
    1 year ago

    I had this happen in real life.

    A friend of a friend died of cancer complications. I posted a rest in peace type message on Facebook without details.

    The next time I saw my mother she asked “I saw your post. Did your friend unalive herself…?”. It felt SO insulting and demeaning for her to ask that AND to ask like that.

  • SillyScythe@kbin.social
    49·
    1 year ago

    The terms originated from online censorship but to me using these terms IRL is very similar to people who use internet slang out loud. Might not be censoring herself but just so used to using those terms. It’s annoying either way though.

      • Rubanski@lemm.ee
        14·
        1 year ago

        Be careful before it spreads to the *

        • ROFL:ROFL:ROFL:ROFL
        •      _^___
        • L __/ [] \
        • LOL===__ \
        • L ________]
        •      I   I

        •     --------/

        Edit: I have no idea how to format here. You have to live now with this abomination

        • akulium@feddit.de
          13·
          1 year ago

          Either 3 backticks before and after code block, or 4 spaces at the start of each line

           ROFL:ROFL:ROFL:ROFL
         _^___
 L    __/   [] \
LOL===__        \
 L      \________]
         I   I
        --------/

          roflcopter

          • samus12345@lemmy.worldEnglish
            3·
            1 year ago

            You know, I never questioned where the term roflcopter came from, but I just looked it up and it comes from the WarCraft III forums in 2003. It actually refers to the gyrocopter in the game rather than a helicopter. This has been another…

        • WanakaTree@lemm.ee
          2·
          1 year ago

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      • SillyScythe@kbin.social
        4·
        1 year ago

        I’ve said stuff like IRL before I’m sure. I didn’t mean to sound judgemental but doing it constantly all the time would irritate me TBH IMO FFS.

  • Kayel@aussie.zone
    452·
    1 year ago

    Is this a joke? 4chan is the origin of candy ass censorship, it enforced coded slurs

  • jet@hackertalks.comEnglish
    433·
    1 year ago

    Languages evolving, to match the censorship, which means censorship will evolve as well. People want to express themselves