I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

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    1 year ago

    if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them

    I’m taking it at face value then and using whatever I think is appropriate. There’s no point in wasting time playing games with this.